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</description><title>Bittersweetheart</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @jodiwilldare)</generator><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/</link><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ly01ts6U4E1qz67koo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/16062564097</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/16062564097</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 09:03:28 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>"The reasons brainstorming fails are instructive for other forms of group work, too. People in groups..."</title><description>“The reasons brainstorming fails are instructive for other forms of group work, too. People in groups tend to sit back and let others do the work; they instinctively mimic others’ opinions and lose sight of their own; and, often succumb to peer pressure. The Emory University neuroscientist Gregory Berns found that when we take a stance different from the group’s, we activate the amygdala, a small organ in the brain associated with the fear of rejection. Professor Berns calls this “the pain of independence.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/15/opinion/sunday/the-rise-of-the-new-groupthink.html?pagewanted=all"&gt;The Rise of the New Groupthink - NYTimes.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/16024927386</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/16024927386</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 16:12:04 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>"Students said the banned books were seized from their classrooms and out of their hands, after..."</title><description>“Students said the banned books were seized from their classrooms and out of their hands, after Tucson schools banned Mexican American Studies, including a book of photos of Mexico. Crying, students said it was like Nazi Germany, and they were unable to sleep since it happened.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://narcosphere.narconews.com/notebook/brenda-norrell/2012/01/tucson-schools-bans-books-chicano-and-native-american-authors#.TxOC0hfpZsI.facebook"&gt;Tucson schools bans books by Chicano and Native American authors | the narcosphere&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15947448277</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15947448277</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 09:14:17 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>S&amp;M Brady Bunch</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/G7JL8wEoRxo/"&gt;S&amp;M Brady Bunch&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Dream posts suck, but when you have a disturbing dream involving a beloved sit-com family, you have to share it. This is almost as disturbing as the &lt;a href="http://www.iwilldare.com/2006/09/25/a-dream-most-disturbing-or-who-in-the-hell-dreams-about-uncle-joey/"&gt;masturbating Uncle Joey&lt;/a&gt; dream.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Last night I…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15234644138</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15234644138</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 03:07:22 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>"You can never underestimate that moment of somebody explaining your life to you, something you..."</title><description>““You can never underestimate that moment of somebody explaining your life to you, something you thought was inexplicable, through music. That was the way out of loneliness.” Carrie Brownstein”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/01/02/120102fa_fact_talbot?currentPage=all"&gt;Carrie Brownstein and Fred Armisen in “Portlandia” : The New Yorker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15154806805</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15154806805</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 19:34:13 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Because you asked: How I moved I Will Dare to a new host</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/SujJklmdxp0/"&gt;Because you asked: How I moved I Will Dare to a new host&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Warning, about 99.99% of you are going to want to skip this one. But for that teeny tiny percent of people who have self-hosted WordPress websites, this might come in handy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So Bakiwop asked how I…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15019613283</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/15019613283</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 02:52:48 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-25)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.last.fm/user/jodiwilldare/charts?charttype=weekly&amp;date_to=1324814400"&gt;My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-25)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Dylan+Hicks"&gt;Dylan Hicks (30)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Willie+Nelson"&gt;Willie Nelson (27)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Johnny+Cash"&gt;Johnny Cash (19)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+Avett+Brothers"&gt;The Avett Brothers (17)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Patsy+Cline"&gt;Patsy Cline (17)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imported from &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com/post/23488847/last-fm-tumblr-weekly-top-artists"&gt;Last.fm Tumblr&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com"&gt;JoeLaz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14966627960</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14966627960</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 02:25:51 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Nobody sees the negative stereotypes</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/SyeJpVq0K9U/"&gt;Nobody sees the negative stereotypes&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;div style="float: left; margin-right: 12px; margin-bottom: 0px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0316129283/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=iwilldare-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399373&amp;creativeASIN=0316129283"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.minnesotareads.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/everybodyseestheants.jpg" alt="" title="everybodyseestheants" width="185" height="268" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-8282"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It’s ironic that a book about bullying can be so full of cruel, negative stereotypes that it verges on bullying itself. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Lucky Linderman, the teenage protagonist of A.S. King’s young…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14914115749</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14914115749</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 05:47:03 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Who needs SOPA when you have GoDaddy's shutdown policy?</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feeds.boingboing.net/~r/boingboing/iBag/~3/E8uoSDXR6pE/who-needs-sopa-when-you-have-g.html"&gt;Who needs SOPA when you have GoDaddy's shutdown policy?&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://boingboing.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/ss_2011-12-26_3.22.14-.jpg" alt="" title="ss_2011-12-26_3.22.14-" width="200"/&gt;David Rusenko, co-founder of website hosting service &lt;a href="http://www.weebly.com/"&gt;Weebly.com&lt;/a&gt;, describes how &lt;a href="http://david.weebly.com/1/post/2011/12/godaddy-a-glimpse-of-the-internet-under-sopa.html"&gt;GoDaddy wiped his domain name records&lt;/a&gt;, only restoring them after a phone call. All it took was a single…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14906101420</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14906101420</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 00:23:05 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>My Christmas Wish 2011, for you, darling ones</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/SSlad0CZvm8/"&gt;My Christmas Wish 2011, for you, darling ones&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.iwilldare.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/cadegivingtree.jpg" alt="" title="cadegivingtree" width="500" height="500" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-10553"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here is what I wish for you, darling ones: &lt;a href="http://www.iwilldare.com/2006/12/25/my-christmas-wish-for-you-darling-ones/"&gt;someone who will change out of their pajama pants for you&lt;/a&gt;; &lt;a href="http://www.iwilldare.com/2007/12/25/my-christmas-07-wish-for-you-darling-ones/"&gt;a life full of hilarious serendipity&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.iwilldare.com/2008/12/26/my-christmas-08-wish-for-you-darling-ones/"&gt;periods of time that are so full of fun and…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14844603908</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14844603908</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 22:10:09 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Some Pictures of Frank Silva I Like</title><description>&lt;a href="http://htmlgiant.com/random/some-pictures-of-frank-silva-i-like/"&gt;Some Pictures of Frank Silva I Like&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WoR3aZzzG3Y/Tio4m9_iNrI/AAAAAAAAJAA/C4kurgVTveM/s1600/silva2-1.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="406"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_jJSCzAHbXm4/SmfcM9TCQUI/AAAAAAAAHEA/ngqcUK1OA1U/s400/FinderScreenSnapz003.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="303"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_jJSCzAHbXm4/R_riWc5-SuI/AAAAAAAABsc/4C71qy3iCwI/s400/FinderScreenSnapz001-1.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="290"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_jJSCzAHbXm4/SGFaC7DzTKI/AAAAAAAAC68/vxALMtvq4tk/s1600/FinderScreenSnapz012.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="460.4"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Frank Silva played BOB and died of complications due to AIDS in 1995.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14656796733</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14656796733</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 23:28:48 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Pancho &amp; Lefty &amp; Carl Perkins</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/gyzcxkH1nEo/"&gt;Pancho &amp; Lefty &amp; Carl Perkins&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Before I begin, I must offer up an apology to my Aunt Eileen. When I was an annoying teenager who was into whatever one-hit-wonder band of the week was (Glass Tiger? Bananarama? Oran “Juice”…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14603817573</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14603817573</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 23:29:53 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Up before the coffee maker</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/1YVWrXHrqbI/"&gt;Up before the coffee maker&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;With Sister #4 taking up residence in my spare bedroom (which I used to call Paco’s bedroom because he liked to hang out in there but now he doesn’t because it gets too cat hairy and like I’m gonna…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14513604943</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14513604943</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 10:32:41 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-18)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.last.fm/user/jodiwilldare/charts?charttype=weekly&amp;date_to=1324209600"&gt;My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-18)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Willie+Nelson"&gt;Willie Nelson (21)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Patsy+Cline"&gt;Patsy Cline (21)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Loretta+Lynn"&gt;Loretta Lynn (18)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Paul+Westerberg"&gt;Paul Westerberg (13)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+Avett+Brothers"&gt;The Avett Brothers (11)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imported from &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com/post/23488847/last-fm-tumblr-weekly-top-artists"&gt;Last.fm Tumblr&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com"&gt;JoeLaz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14502278934</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14502278934</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:07:22 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>14 eclectic, bookish gifts</title><description>&lt;a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/jacketcopy/2011/12/gifts-book-lovers-eclectic.html"&gt;14 eclectic, bookish gifts&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;div&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/.a/6a00d8341c630a53ef01675eb3d108970b-pi" style="display:inline"&gt;&lt;img alt="Bookrestlamp" border="0" src="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/.a/6a00d8341c630a53ef01675eb3d108970b-800wi" title="Bookrestlamp"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Books are good — books are always good — but book lovers cannot live on books alone. Here is Jacket Copy’s eclectic list of gifts that aren’t books, but could please the bookish. Above,…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14327484335</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14327484335</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 17:26:45 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Ridiculously excited to give these gifts</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/fDaezDoXeNk/"&gt;Ridiculously excited to give these gifts&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Have I mentioned lately how much I love The Black Sheep, my writing group formerly known as The Chicken Fingers? Not only do I love them for being obnoxiously smart, super supportive, and just…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14265284293</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14265284293</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 10:29:21 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-11)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.last.fm/user/jodiwilldare/charts?charttype=weekly&amp;date_to=1323604800"&gt;My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-11)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Liz+Phair"&gt;Liz Phair (19)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+Cranberries"&gt;The Cranberries (12)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Patsy+Cline"&gt;Patsy Cline (10)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+Rolling+Stones"&gt;The Rolling Stones (8)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Johnny+Cash"&gt;Johnny Cash (7)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imported from &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com/post/23488847/last-fm-tumblr-weekly-top-artists"&gt;Last.fm Tumblr&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com"&gt;JoeLaz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14253587459</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/14253587459</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 00:11:16 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Chromey’s Complaint: On abandoning Portnoy</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/iwilldare/cDIM/~3/EGNMgPRo3Xk/"&gt;Chromey’s Complaint: On abandoning Portnoy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.iwilldare.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/chromeyscomplain.jpg" alt="" title="chromeyscomplain" width="500" height="204" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-10522"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tonight when I turn in for bedtime reading I’ll be cracking open Anne Ursu’s &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062015052/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=iwilldare-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0062015052"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Breadcrumbs&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; instead of &lt;em&gt;Portnoy’s Complaint&lt;/em&gt; by Philip Roth. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why is this noteworthy? Because I am abandoning…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13929721012</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13929721012</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 13:24:15 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>Breaking: Sebelius overrules FDA decision on emergency contraception</title><description>&lt;a href="http://feministing.com/2011/12/07/breaking-sebelius-overrules-fda-decision-on-emergency-contraception/"&gt;Breaking: Sebelius overrules FDA decision on emergency contraception&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/08/health/policy/sebelius-overrules-fda-on-freer-sale-of-emergency-contraceptives.html"&gt;You have got to be kidding me: &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius overruled the scientists at the Food and Drug Administration on Wednesday and refused to allow emergency…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13910763473</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13910763473</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 23:34:19 -0600</pubDate></item><item><title>My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-4)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.last.fm/user/jodiwilldare/charts?charttype=weekly&amp;date_to=1323000000"&gt;My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-4)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+Jayhawks"&gt;The Jayhawks (56)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/the+bird+and+the+bee"&gt;the bird and the bee (40)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Paul+Westerberg"&gt;Paul Westerberg (28)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Dessa"&gt;Dessa (23)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Uncle+Tupelo"&gt;Uncle Tupelo (11)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imported from &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com/post/23488847/last-fm-tumblr-weekly-top-artists"&gt;Last.fm Tumblr&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://joelaz.com"&gt;JoeLaz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13867860550</link><guid>http://bittersweetheart.com/post/13867860550</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 03:46:47 -0600</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

